Starting a FemDom marriage in the Vanilla Kingdom

Meeting Mistress

I was pretty active in "The Scene" on the West Coast about 10 years ago and had been missing it ever since, so every so often I would Google for things like "chicago domination" or other such terms toying with the idea of finding a local Domme that could scratch my itch to serve.  Most Dommes I found were either glorified escorts ("Massage and BDSM" seems to be their rallying cry) or phone sex girls just out to cash in with half-assed "whip-me-beat-me" scripts.

Last week, I was in a randy mood at work and started trying to find some podcast erotica to entertain myself.  Google brought me to Digital Podcast’s erotica directory and I discovered not only a bunch of great audio erotica, but also a treasure trove of D/s podcasts. 

D/s is a weird animal.  There are so many different "flavors" that it’s hard to find someone who shares your exact kink.  A Domme might specialize in medical play, but be all about the enemas.  They might be into electrical play, but then demand "toilet slave" service.  They might love to wield a strap-on, but only in a forced feminization setting.  In a D/s relationship, you can’t say "no", so you either have to accept kinks that don’t really work for you or keep searching.  I sometimes envy people who are just like "I dig chicks with big tits" because it’s so easy  for them to find ways to light their flame.

I have a weird mix of fetishes I enjoy:  medical play (especially sounds and catheters), electrical play, bondage, power exchange (basically being put into a situation where I’m helpless like kidnapping scenarios), forced orgasm (usually paired with power exchange and machine sex, like being strapped to a machine and forced to yield), and so on.  I also am something of a chubby chaser which just adds to the odd mix.  Granted, for me the most  important thing is the power control - being helpless and in a situation in which I had no control over what was going on.

During my searching on-line, it seems that many of my kinks are mutually exclusive, meaning in order to completely satisfy everything I was into, I needed a vast assortment of videos and/or erotic literature.  While searching the podcast directory, it seemed that erotic audio fell into the same conundrum.  Some Dommes had potentially interesting podcasts, but either had voices that weren’t appealing to me or specialized in topics that didn’t do much for me.  In order to help me eliminate those podcasts, I started visiting the originating web sites to get a broader view of the Domme and get a sense of their repertoire.

That’s when I found Mistress Trecia.

The very top of the first page on her site mentions the word "mindfuck" which sounded intriguing and piqued my interest.  Then, I noticed she had a blog.  It was reading her writings that really sealed the deal for me.  First, it was obvious that she was a true Domme who just happened to practice her craft via the Internet.  What’s also eerie is that my fetishes lined up almost perfectly with hers, making things even more interesting.  The biggest thing, however, was how articulate and passionate Mistress was and how she clearly enjoyed analyzing what makes the D/s relationship what it is and exploring the nature of various kinks. 

On her blog, Mistress Trecia had a "Tit For Tat" offer - she was willing to trade a 1 year membership to her site and 10 minutes of phone time per month for a 1 year membership to Adult Friend Finder.  I looked at the membership costs and decided to contact her to see if the offer was still on the table.  Fortunately, it was and we traded login information, Mistress bestowing upon me the user name "timid boy" since I had described being hesitant to step back into this world again. 

In the next few days after our initial contact, we started to chat via e-mail about ourselves, my D/s history, and my desire to find a new service avenue.  She posted a wonderfully flattering note about me in her blog which goosed the already growing D/s desires that were starting to rise again after such an extended absence.  She also asked if I was looking to eventually take things off the web to a real-life session, but I cautioned her that I was wanting to take things really  slowly as my trust issues with previous Dommes were setting off major alarm bells in my head.

Of course, almost one week to the day later I was naked in front of my newly-purchased web cam, aching to cum and begging for Mistress to own me in every way.

– Sigh  –    Such is the power of Mistress Trecia.

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