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Starting a FemDom marriage in the Vanilla Kingdom

The Wife

So late last night, I was chatting with Mistress and she says, "I might let you use my cock to please your wife".

Given the intensity of my devotion to Mistress and my activities over the past week, you would probably be surprised to learn that I’m married.  When we met, my wife was really into the whole BDSM thing.  She had a very close friend (a co-worker of mine) who was a spanking enthusiast and she used to let him practice his art on her.  He had a wooden chest at the foot of his bed filled with everything from paddles to floggers to canes.

Since I had a D/s bent from a very early age, it was something we shared.  Of course, we were both on the sub side of things, but we had an appreciation for where the other was coming from.  We tried some games where one or the other would take the top, but neither of us was very satisfied with the arrangement. 

Things got bad after a few years and we decided to separate.  During that time, I stumbled into the BDSM community, found a few like-minded Dommes, and discovered the joys of subspace.  When my life imploded (more on that later) I moved back to Chicago and made amends with my wife, but she had changed quite a bit during our time apart.  The biggest change was a complete shunning of all things BDSM.

Since I already had some major life changes to embrace in order to turn things around from hitting bottom, I figured giving up my submissive side would be no problem.  It was just a crazy kink, right?  I didn’t realize until this week (9 years later) how much it was a part of who I am and how much I was missing after giving it up.

During the last couple of days, Mistress and I discussed the possibility of some day having her work with my wife to incorporate my servitude to Mistress into my marriage.  One really interesting scenario involved giving both my wife and Mistress keys to my chastity cage to share ownership.  I’d love to see that happen and hope that the positive changes my wife has been seeing in me over the last week (including quitting my antidepressants) will sell her on the situation.

In the meantime, I had Mistress’s interesting assignment.  It was a challenge - I had to satisfy my wife while at the same time saving my orgasm for Mistress.  I managed to do both (including some actual sex with my wife) and was able to give her two orgasms. 

Of course, our little morning adventure didn’t do anything for my growing need for release.  More than ever, I’m hoping Mistress will grace me with a second chance at some relief on Monday, especially since my impending caging will mean a long dry spell.

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