Starting a FemDom marriage in the Vanilla Kingdom

Site Change & Chilling

Yesterday, Mistress Trecia expressed concern that my blog which, while originally an "instrument of devotion" to her, was "degrading into ’sour grapes’".  I disagree with her in that regard, but she’s correct in that I created this for her and it has lately become a platform for me to discuss my marriage and Jacqueline’s emerging Domme.

Therefore, "confessions of a timid boy" has officially become "sub-burbs".  I’m happy with the site’s theme, but I will be tweaking the features over the next couple of days.  I’m also not set on the default size of the text.

The new URL of the site is, but I will keep active and pointed to the blog so that existing incoming links keep working.  If you have me on your blogroll, I would really appreciate it if you would update the link.  (I’ll be contacting those that I know about via "talkback" personally.)

Also, I’m no longer going to refer to myself as "timidboy".  My name is Chris, and I’m a submissive.  Welcome to my site!

Today, I’m just chilling at home taking a "veg" day.  After this emotionally charged week, Jacqueline and I agreed that we needed a day to just hang out, play games, and just have fun.

We did have one brief discussion today, however.  Jacqueline confessed that she is feeling like less of a Domme since I haven’t been doting on her for the past two days.  After our agreement that we needed to slow down and not start with a 24/7 FemDom marriage, I did as we agreed and stopped worshiping Jaci as much as I was.  I am still helping out around the house, just not trying to do everything as a devotional.

Since we’re both pretty burnt, we decided to table the discussion on this until tomorrow.

Jacqueline is nearly done with the book "Different Loving" and has started putting together an Amazon wishlist of other books she is interested in.  (I noticed one guide to cock and ball torture on the list which excites and worries me at the same time.) 

Tomorrow, we’re planning to stop by Native Rituals, a piercing and tattoo shop in Oak Forrest so she can pick out a new ring for my piercing.  We also discussed getting my nipples pierced some time in the future.  Her main issue with getting them done is, basically, "What would the neighbors think?" should I ever take our nephews or (someday) kids to the neighborhood pool.  I told her that once they heal enough, I could take them out for a couple of hours without any issues and she agreed that would be a suitable compromise.  She did warn me not to pester her about it and said that she would save that for a very special treat.

This weekend is our first munch and we’re both nervous and excited and hoping we meet a bunch a new potential friends.  We also got confirmation that we’re on the list for Galleria Domain’s new members night in two weeks which should also be a lot of fun.

I’m going to stop writing now and get back to my big task for the day - advancing through Expert level on Guitar Hero II.

5 Comments so far

  1. MWK April 29th, 2007 3:36 pm

    AWESOME new site design! I personally think you need to lighten the text and make it a size larger, but overall think your new theme is sweet!

    I would have edited yesterday’s comment to fit your edit, however I no longer have that ability.

    It’s good to see things leveling out.

    Be well in your sub-burb!

  2. slc April 30th, 2007 8:59 am

    i have to say how excited i am to see things starting to work out for you and Jaci…i’ve been following your blog for about a month (about the same time i discovered MWK) and have had some mixed emotions. i’m sure the amount of emotional turmoil flowing through your house has made it hard to think straight at times. There were times when i’ve thought “you’ve got to be nuts” for doing or saying some of the things i’ve read but that’s any easy thing to think when you’re on the outside looking in.

    However, now with the new site name and design i think you’ve taken a definite step in the right direction. i’m excited for you and the prospect of you and Jaci being able to work out the wrinkles and both find that spark you’ve been missing.

    in a lot of ways i’m in the same boat in trying to find ways to bring out the Domme in my wife…and i’m looking forwrd to reading more about Your journey.


  3. JIM April 30th, 2007 9:51 am

    As stated to you in our email flurry (was feeling like Dr Steve.. defin not Oprah..), can it be learned, yes, but depends on willingness. I am very glad to see Jaci is not a “weekend warrior” as first thought of.

    And as far as the neighbors, its a new time, look how many people have tatts, and rings all over. They won’t say too much, they may even have them. The PA on the other hand…

    And, no you can’t just throw everyone into the deep end for 24/7. Start off slow a few times a week like you planed, and go from there.

  4. MWK April 30th, 2007 3:39 pm

    Oh yeah the text looks WAY better!

    And I think I like this header better than the other! Bang up job Chris!


  5. Der Whip Mit Der Quips May 1st, 2007 12:32 pm

    Hi Chris, I’m delighted (truly!) at the change in your marriage. I worried about timidboy losing his way, and his wife. Kudos to your wonderful wife for putting in 110% with you. I wish the both of you all the happiness, and fulfillment in the world. Be a good boy for her. She loves you.

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