Comments on: Dualing Confessions http://www.sub-burbs.com/2007/05/02/dualing-confessions/ Starting a FemDom marriage in the Vanilla Kingdom Thu, 15 Jul 2010 13:29:18 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Chris http://www.sub-burbs.com/2007/05/02/dualing-confessions/comment-page-1/#comment-977 Chris Thu, 03 May 2007 16:22:03 +0000 http://www.sub-burbs.com/2007/05/02/dualing-confessions/#comment-977 You are correct, Hawk. We're not planning to out ourselves widely, just to our close inner circle. One of Jaci's requirements was that we would stay vanilla Muggles on the surface to just about everyone. In fact, the header picture was supposed to represent that. On the inside of the house is our new, kinkier relationship. On the outside, however, we look like every other plain surburban couple on our block. You are correct, Hawk. We’re not planning to out ourselves widely, just to our close inner circle. One of Jaci’s requirements was that we would stay vanilla Muggles on the surface to just about everyone.

In fact, the header picture was supposed to represent that. On the inside of the house is our new, kinkier relationship. On the outside, however, we look like every other plain surburban couple on our block.

]]> By: Hawk http://www.sub-burbs.com/2007/05/02/dualing-confessions/comment-page-1/#comment-976 Hawk Thu, 03 May 2007 16:00:36 +0000 http://www.sub-burbs.com/2007/05/02/dualing-confessions/#comment-976 I can't agree with you more on that MWK. The "outing" to everyone is not really a good idea, and I know Chris knows that. Ben would as he put number 2 on his list. I think me being first one and then flooring him with my info, just threw him for a bit of a loop. As I posted on my site, straights have just that one door, being gay I have 2-3 doors, and each has their limits, etc. So, yea, whom you open the door for is a key thought. And yes, i am proud of BOTH of them for this. As they will hear again from me... :P Keep up the good work, and Chris, hope she don't think of using those books as paddles... :) (hint hint) Hawk I can’t agree with you more on that MWK. The “outing” to everyone is not really a good idea, and I know Chris knows that. Ben would as he put number 2 on his list. I think me being first one and then flooring him with my info, just threw him for a bit of a loop. As I posted on my site, straights have just that one door, being gay I have 2-3 doors, and each has their limits, etc. So, yea, whom you open the door for is a key thought.

And yes, i am proud of BOTH of them for this. As they will hear again from me… :P

Keep up the good work, and Chris, hope she don’t think of using those books as paddles… :) (hint hint)

Hawk

]]> By: MWK http://www.sub-burbs.com/2007/05/02/dualing-confessions/comment-page-1/#comment-971 MWK Thu, 03 May 2007 00:10:35 +0000 http://www.sub-burbs.com/2007/05/02/dualing-confessions/#comment-971 Jaci sounds like a natch. I wanted to compliment her yesterday, but don't want to further complicate matters. I was fairly impressed with the way she handled you yesterday, and honestly would have done very little differently. One piece of advice... Please be very careful about who you out yourself to, and more importantly who you discuss others with, (like the fine kinky folks of MSP) because people take outing VERY seriously. I'd hate to see you two meet resistance in your new community for being "too open" More importantly (to me anyway) I don't want to catch more shit over this situation. Me being the indirect cause of someone being outed would pretty much suck! And I am not sure if you've detected it yet or not, but you guys have this whole "plus 1" thinigie going... 16 years "plus 1 day": when Jaci said she wanted to try a Female Led Marriage. One month "plus one day" from the time we got you pierced until your wife will reclaim that property marking as her own. I think it's kinda neat, like you guys have been given a "plus 1" chance. As for the hero(s) thing, you both are heros. I would LOVE to find myself in Jaci's position, just as 95% of your male readers would love to find themselves in your position (in varying shades). In other words you two ARE living the dream, and are to be admired and envied. I am so very impress (yea even proud) of you both! MWK Jaci sounds like a natch. I wanted to compliment her yesterday, but don’t want to further complicate matters. I was fairly impressed with the way she handled you yesterday, and honestly would have done very little differently.

One piece of advice… Please be very careful about who you out yourself to, and more importantly who you discuss others with, (like the fine kinky folks of MSP) because people take outing VERY seriously. I’d hate to see you two meet resistance in your new community for being “too open” More importantly (to me anyway) I don’t want to catch more shit over this situation. Me being the indirect cause of someone being outed would pretty much suck!

And I am not sure if you’ve detected it yet or not, but you guys have this whole “plus 1″ thinigie going… 16 years “plus 1 day”: when Jaci said she wanted to try a Female Led Marriage. One month “plus one day” from the time we got you pierced until your wife will reclaim that property marking as her own.

I think it’s kinda neat, like you guys have been given a “plus 1″ chance.

As for the hero(s) thing, you both are heros. I would LOVE to find myself in Jaci’s position, just as 95% of your male readers would love to find themselves in your position (in varying shades). In other words you two ARE living the dream, and are to be admired and envied.

I am so very impress (yea even proud) of you both!

MWK

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