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Here are this week’s answers for Too Much Information Tuesday:

1. What sight, sound, smell, object or whatever most remind you of a special someone?

Right now, my collar reminds me of the special new commitment I’ve made to my Wife, Miss Jacqueline. I also always carry a handcuff key she gave me that is a daily reminder of finally unlocking my true self.

2. Favourite body part/parts of the opposite (or same) sex?

Women: I love breasts of any size, as long as they are real. (Fake ones are a huge turn-off for me.)

Men: I love an erect penis. I’m more "poly" than bi, but there is something about the hot, pliable-yet-hard skin of a cock that is just incredibly erotic.

3. Do you prefer to give or receive?

Give. I like to receive, but I like shopping more, so the thrill for me is to find or make special gifts.  The same goes sexually – giving is "service" for me which feeds directly into my submissiveness.

4. One night stands – What’s the protocol? Stay the night or get the hell outta there?

Don’t run out the door, but make some small talk and coffee or something, then bail. Being there in the morning is pretty awkward.

5. What is the strangest place you’ve had sex?

Backstage at a theater I worked at. When Jacqueline and I were dating in college, I worked at the Arts Center as a carpenter. I set up a whole event that ended with us backstage on a mattress making love by flashlight. It was a very special and erotic experience.

Bonus (as in optional): How old were you when you lost your virginity? Who was it to? Describe the event.

With a guy: 16 with my Scoutmaster. We had a sleepover at his apartment with a few guys and I was invited to stay in his room with him. He had tried to touch me once before and I asked him to stop, but that night I asked him to continue. He sucked me for awhile and then fucked me gently. The fact that I asked for it clashed with being told it was wrong by a counselor (after which she made me call the cops), so the event screwed me up sexually for a very long time.

With a girl: 17 with my girlfriend Rachael in her parent’s bed. We had fooled around in the car a few times, but this was the first time we were naked together and actually had sex. I had practiced putting on a condom before the big day, so I managed to make it really tender and fun without too much fumbling.