sub-burbs

If you’ve been following the site for the past couple of weeks, you may have noticed I’ve been struggling with labels when referring to my wife Jacqueline.

Even though I am collared 24/7 and have taken on the role of lifestyle sub, there are still many times when we fall back into our old married couple routine.  Therefore, I have been referring to my wife as Jacqueline or Jaci during those times and Miss Jacqueline during sessions.

This doesn’t just go for the blog – I’m also struggling with labels at home and so is Jaci.  She gets uncomfortable when I refer to her as "Miss" or "Ma’am" in public (in a BSDM club, for instance) or even around the house.  We’ve discussed this and me explaining that it is a term of respect (much like addressing officers during my time in the Navy) seemed to help ease her feelings about it somewhat.

While we sort this out, I figured the blog is a good place to start, so from now on I will be referring to her as "Miss Jacqueline" or "MJ".  (Take that, Spidey!)