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Sorry for the week-long gap in posting. I got bogged down in a couple of huge work projects that even kept us from The Club this past weekend, so there actually wasn’t much to post in any case!  (I even turned down an offered assignment last night because I’ve been so exhausted and overwhelmed.  Thankfully, things are starting to get back to normal.)

Planning for the big Colorado trip is almost done and MJ assures me it is going to be awesome! (Outside of fetching some information or copying pages out of her books at her request, she has handled all the arrangements. So, other than knowing we needed unlimited miles on our rental car, I have no idea what we are going to be doing.  The secrecy has been a lot of fun and I know MJ is doing it partly just because she can.  Of course, I love it!)

The last part of the trip is our visit to Thunder in the Mountains, the awesome BDSM conference in Denver.  MJ warned me a couple of days ago that since some of the kinkiest and most skilled folks from around the country are going to be there, She may not way to play in the public dungeon.  She did say that she would more likely be wanting to take notes!  We are packing a trunk full of toys to bring with, so I know we will have a lot of fun even if it is in the privacy of our hotel room.

I got word from The Club (as the BDSM club MJ and I joined will now be known) that I am allowed to blog about personal experiences between MJ and I, but talking about anything else is still strictly forbidden.  MJ has told me to be prepared to go on Saturday, so I’m sure I’ll have plenty to tell!

That’s all for now - I’ll have more to report after the weekend!

The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #86? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
A Little Fun at Home (fexual-strustration.blogspot.com…)
“She surprised herself when her fingers found the actual ice cube melting inside her cunt.”

The Anniversary Present (perverselypoly.blogspot.com…)
“But I knew that nothing would be more appropriate to the new path we’ve chosen than a threesome with another man on the night celebrating our wedding so many years ago.”

Girl’s Night In (thenakedrhetoricaltruth.blogspot.com…)
“Some of us are more conservative than one would have thought, and some of us, it appears from dropped jaws round the table, are less.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
7 Simple Ways to Future-proof Your Blog (sugarbank.com…)

Editor’s Choice
My Exam (wanklog.blogspot.com…)

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Erotic Writing and Experiences
The Dragonfly (in-your-pants.blogspot.com…)
Greedy Eyes (paradisetiedup.blogspot.com…)
I awoke… (fantasy-nuggets.blogspot.com…)
I remember entering the hotel room (orangeuglad.blogspot.com… )
It should have been a dream then! (lastbreath.wordpress.com…)
Music & Cock (confessions112.blogspot.com…)
Party Games Part 2 (drtycplinva.blogspot.com…)
Petals….. (clearslate2007.wordpress.com…)
The Pirate Captain (bikersballsandteacherstits.blogspot.com…)
Razor Stubble (lafillemariee.blogspot.com…)
So good I could almost come (plum001.blogspot.com…)
Through the Crack (slutissimo2.wordpress.com…)
Yesterday (classyelegantlady.blogspot.com…)

Sex & Politics
Gay Marriage Survives (deliciously-naughty.typepad.com…)

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Beautiful Agony Video (eroticandy.blogspot.com…)
Betcee May - Nude in Nature (seccpicsnude.blogspot.com…)
Filthy Food (myhotbox.blogspot.com…)
Sasha Cohen (gotcum.blogspot.com…)
Wild - Pictorial Presentation (eroticjournals.blogspot.com…)

Sex Work
Charlie and the Chocolate Covered Cock (ladyentertainers.com…)
When A Client Dies-Part 1 (www.radicalvixen.com…)

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The Back Room (goldslutstandard.com…)
The Control of a Submissive (vampyrandhisladye.blogspot.com…)
Happy HNT - Summertime spanking (darkside-journey.blogspot.com…)
His kiss (insidedarkpixie.blogspot.com…)
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I want to hurt you (everythingoze.blogspot.com…)
Painslut (kinkyfarmwife.blogspot.com…)
“The Real Reason I Have Long Hair,” smut from the archives (lustylady.blogspot.com…)
Scenes From My Bedroom - Part 4: Giving up control (collaredcatalina.wordpress.com…)
Two vingnettes from two scenes (geltsgirl.livejournal.com…)
Yanking My Chain (puppytale.blogspot.com…)

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Fern wood tonight (hard-and-fast.blogspot.com…)
Half-Nekkid and Playing the Field (www.tarasnaughtyshop.com…)
How To Make 3 Girls Have An Orgasm (www.hypnopimpdaddy.com…)
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Love and Crush: Confessions (un-cool.blogspot.com…)
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Slutdom Redefined (junohenry.wordpress.com…)
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Happy (very belated) TMI Tuesday!

1. Does the carpet match the drapes?

Well, my head has hair and the junk don’t, so no. (I actually love the feeling of being bare "down there" and consider that a perk of being a kept sub.)

2. Have you ever used personal information about someone to blackmail them?

I indirectly helped my boss get his budget approved. One of the higher-ups was shopping for escorts from his office PC. Oops!

3. What is your favorite thing to lick?

Nipples. I love the way they get hard as you tease them.

4. Have you ever had sex in a place of worship? (i.e., church, temple, mosque, etc.)

No. I once did a piano performance in a church only to have it burn down the next day. Coincidence or a critique from God? Hmm…

5. If you watch video porn, do you buy it in a store, from a catalog, online, or download it? LINK!!!

I used to buy a lot of magazines and tapes (then DVDs), but now just download. My favorite site at the moment is PureTnA.

Bonus (as in optional): How often, if ever, do you "fake it?"

There’s been two times in my life where I’ve faked it. The first was when I was hopped up on Zoloft which made it tough to cum. The other time was when I was saving up for my Domme at the time when having sex with my Wife. (I know, I know. Fortunately, my Wife and Domme are one and the same now, so it only happens on her command now…)