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]]> By: Chris http://www.sub-burbs.com/2008/05/15/jumping-the-shark/comment-page-1/#comment-10923 Chris Sat, 17 May 2008 14:17:49 +0000 http://www.sub-burbs.com/2008/05/15/jumping-the-shark/#comment-10923 Ms. Rika: I love your point about how the typical Hollywood stance toward BDSM is designed to give people the thrill while still being able to hate themselves for having it turn them on. It reminds me of something Dr. Gloria Brame talks about in "Different Loving" where some people can only find pure sexual release through BDSM because they are helpless in a scene and therefore don't feel guilty when they are "forced" to experience sexual pleasure. Ms. Rika: I love your point about how the typical Hollywood stance toward BDSM is designed to give people the thrill while still being able to hate themselves for having it turn them on. It reminds me of something Dr. Gloria Brame talks about in “Different Loving” where some people can only find pure sexual release through BDSM because they are helpless in a scene and therefore don’t feel guilty when they are “forced” to experience sexual pleasure.

]]> By: Ms Rika http://www.sub-burbs.com/2008/05/15/jumping-the-shark/comment-page-1/#comment-10908 Ms Rika Fri, 16 May 2008 12:47:35 +0000 http://www.sub-burbs.com/2008/05/15/jumping-the-shark/#comment-10908 BDSM is found in 'Abnormal Psychology' books. It is still considered a 'deviance' by the psychology world. This is sad, but still a fact. I'll point out also that, until a few years ago, so was homosexuality. I suspect a change is in the works - a slow change - and I hope to see it in my lifetime! When mainstream media presents topics that are taboo, but extremely popular, they take the standard approach: lure with the symbols, ride the line of what's allowable in prime-time, then present a reason why they're not really condoning the behavior (the BDSM person had a broken home, was raped, hates men...or is a deranged killer, a sadist, someone to be feared...or die tragically in the end - having taking their 'addiction' too far). This protects the majority of people who, beneath it all, find the images provocative - but cannot deal with the guilt / shame of enjoying it. So, mainstream BDSM people have to be broken, deranged, or doomed. Anything else would imply that the media APPROVES of the activities...and we can't have that. Of course, they have no problem flaunting the tantilizing images of handcuffs, floggers, leather, bootheels, etc. After all, that's going to sell...but sell in the safe-haven that, when the movie is over, one can go back to one's missionary life knowing that 'those people' are not me... It's a game...and I suspect the time will come when BDSM and D/s will make its way out of the abnormal psych book ... it's already on the shelves at Borders! :) In the mean time, there's always 'sub-burbs'!!! :) - Rika. BDSM is found in ‘Abnormal Psychology’ books. It is still considered a ‘deviance’ by the psychology world. This is sad, but still a fact. I’ll point out also that, until a few years ago, so was homosexuality. I suspect a change is in the works – a slow change – and I hope to see it in my lifetime!

When mainstream media presents topics that are taboo, but extremely popular, they take the standard approach: lure with the symbols, ride the line of what’s allowable in prime-time, then present a reason why they’re not really condoning the behavior (the BDSM person had a broken home, was raped, hates men…or is a deranged killer, a sadist, someone to be feared…or die tragically in the end – having taking their ‘addiction’ too far). This protects the majority of people who, beneath it all, find the images provocative – but cannot deal with the guilt / shame of enjoying it.

So, mainstream BDSM people have to be broken, deranged, or doomed. Anything else would imply that the media APPROVES of the activities…and we can’t have that. Of course, they have no problem flaunting the tantilizing images of handcuffs, floggers, leather, bootheels, etc. After all, that’s going to sell…but sell in the safe-haven that, when the movie is over, one can go back to one’s missionary life knowing that ‘those people’ are not me…

It’s a game…and I suspect the time will come when BDSM and D/s will make its way out of the abnormal psych book … it’s already on the shelves at Borders! :) In the mean time, there’s always ’sub-burbs’!!! :)

- Rika.

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