Starting a FemDom marriage in the Vanilla Kingdom

TMI Tuesday #138

1. If you’re in love with your partner, does it make the sex better?

Absolutely!  There is something to be said about dirty, raunchy sex with someone you don’t know that well, but the emotional connection you can have is just amazing.  (I think that’s one of the reasons I love D/s so much - it’s all about that connection even when you’re not physically involved.)

2. What is the most expensive sex toy you’ve ever purchased?

My Venus 2000.  My electrosex gear was expensive (especially since I want to add a high-end power box and a violet wand), but that was the single largest purchase at around $1,200.

3. If you knew ahead of time you would not have an orgasm, would you still have sex?

Yes!  Tease and denial can be really fun games.  Part of my role as sub is to please my MIss without regard to my own pleasure.  Forcing a man to have sex then deny him his release can be a really powerful D/s experience for both parties.

sararue4. What celebrity would you most like to have sex with if given the chance?

Sara Rue, but only if I could go back in time before she got skinny.  (She was *so* hot in Gypsy 83 [on the left] and even in her "Less Than Perfect" show.)  I’m also a big Melanie Anton fan, but I don’t think 90’s BBW porn stars count as "celebrities".

 5. Have you ever had sex while an audience watched?

A few times.  I used to go to a few different swingers parties in San Diego and there were always people just watching.  The most interesting started as a seven-person grope in the hot tub.

Bonus (as in optional): Describe the best sexual encounter you’ve ever had.

That’s actually kinda tough.  For just "regular" sex, it’s probably when I was back in college.  I worked for the college arts department and had keys to the stage and scene shop.  I took my girlfriend (who is now my Mistress/Wife) on a surprise late-night visit backstage.  It was really creepy and erotic.  I laid out a mattress that was in the prop room in one of the side stage alcoves and we made love by flashlight.

1 Comment so far

  1. Amorous Rocker June 10th, 2008 4:29 pm

    Awesome answers! Happy TMI!

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