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Here are this week’s answers for Too Much Information Tuesday:

1. What sight, sound, smell, object or whatever most remind you of a special someone?

Right now, my collar reminds me of the special new commitment I’ve made to my Wife, Miss Jacqueline. I also always carry a handcuff key she gave me that is a daily reminder of finally unlocking my true self.

2. Favourite body part/parts of the opposite (or same) sex?

Women: I love breasts of any size, as long as they are real. (Fake ones are a huge turn-off for me.)

Men: I love an erect penis. I’m more "poly" than bi, but there is something about the hot, pliable-yet-hard skin of a cock that is just incredibly erotic.

3. Do you prefer to give or receive?

Give. I like to receive, but I like shopping more, so the thrill for me is to find or make special gifts.  The same goes sexually - giving is "service" for me which feeds directly into my submissiveness.

4. One night stands - What’s the protocol? Stay the night or get the hell outta there?

Don’t run out the door, but make some small talk and coffee or something, then bail. Being there in the morning is pretty awkward.

5. What is the strangest place you’ve had sex?

Backstage at a theater I worked at. When Jacqueline and I were dating in college, I worked at the Arts Center as a carpenter. I set up a whole event that ended with us backstage on a mattress making love by flashlight. It was a very special and erotic experience.

Bonus (as in optional): How old were you when you lost your virginity? Who was it to? Describe the event.

With a guy: 16 with my Scoutmaster. We had a sleepover at his apartment with a few guys and I was invited to stay in his room with him. He had tried to touch me once before and I asked him to stop, but that night I asked him to continue. He sucked me for awhile and then fucked me gently. The fact that I asked for it clashed with being told it was wrong by a counselor (after which she made me call the cops), so the event screwed me up sexually for a very long time.

With a girl: 17 with my girlfriend Rachael in her parent’s bed. We had fooled around in the car a few times, but this was the first time we were naked together and actually had sex. I had practiced putting on a condom before the big day, so I managed to make it really tender and fun without too much fumbling.

Here are this week’s answers for Too Much Information Tuesday:

1. Ideal amount of sex per week?

Actually, I think intimacy is more important than sex, so as long as I was feeling close and connected to my partner, I’d be okay with no sex in a given week.  Given that I’m starting tease and denial at the hands of my wife, actual sex may be few and far between in the coming months.

2. Ever had an online affair?

Yes, with an on-line Pro Domme. You can read all about it below.

3. Are you a member of the mile high club?

Not yet…

4. Are you prejudice against any particular group of people?

I have very little patience for stupid people, especially those who don’t want or care to educate themselves.

5. What constitutes bad sex?

Sex that isn’t fun for either partner.

Bonus (as in optional): Can females ejaculate?

Absolutely!

Here are this week’s answers for Too Much Information Tuesday:

1. Stubble… good or bad? How often do you shave?

Generally bad (on men and women). I normally shave once per day, but if I know I’m going to be intimate with someone I usually shave beforehand.

2. How often do you kiss (read make out) with your so?

Sadly, hardly at all. I love kissing, but lately just get a peck every so often as we part ways in the morning. This is the first thing we need to fix in our sex life.

3. Have you ever placed a personal ad or answered a personal ad?

When I was in the Navy, I answered a bunch of erotic penpal ads in the back of a fetish magazine. I started regular correspondance with an older gentleman in Hawaii that liked to write as a high-school girl and/or her sister. That was a lot of fun!

4. Where was the first place you ever had sex?

In my girlfriend’s parent’s bed. I actually Googled her recently and found her web page, but didn’t want to try and reconnect.

5. After a night of great sex, who do you tell? How much?

I tell everything to everyone on the Internet. (Welcome and scroll down!)

Bonus (as in optional): Have you ever kissed your partner on the lips after oral sex without brushing teeth, nor washing/gargling/rinsing out mouth? Turn on or off?

Yes, in both cases (after me performing and her performing). I actually like it, but know I’m a kinky bastard. Reactions from partners to tasting themselves on my lips has been mixed depending on the person. (Some past girlfriends loved it, my wife does not.)

Here are this week’s answers for Too Much Information Tuesday:

1. What is your favorite foreplay activity?

Giving: I love sucking a woman’s nipples and nuzzling their breasts. Kissing is a close second.

Receiving: Getting my neck kissed and feeling my partner’s hot breath on my neck is a huge turn-on.

2. Off the top of your head, how many sexual positions can you name? (The link only has 21.)

Nam shub, missionary, doggy, standing doggy, standing (after Roadhouse, now called "The Swayze"), woman on top (the Ride’em Cowboy), side scissor, spoon, horizontal spoon, suspended (swing), the Big Slick. (I think that last one might be a poker hand instead.)

3. Of those you named how many have you tried?

Nam shub, missionary, doggy, standing doggy, Ride’em Cowboy, side scissor. I’ve attempted most of the others, but don’t count them since I didn’t actually make any "contact". (Some sex positions are tough for big guys and/or big girls, especially in combination.)

4. What is your least favorite sexual position? (I did not say that it wasn’t enjoyable, I said least favorite. They can’t all be the best?)

Doggy. I love to watch a woman’s face (especially the eyes), breasts, and (for big girls) their belly during sex. I can’t see any of those from behind.

5. Have you ever cheated on a significant other?

Yes. I’ve previously posted the entire lurid tale. I have also dated multiple people at the same time when I was younger, so I guess you can count that. The worst was when I was dating a girl and her best friend at the same time in high school.

Bonus (as in optional): Have you ever been diagnosed a sexually transmitted disease? Have you ever been tested?

I’ve never been diagnosed. I have been tested - the Navy used to test us for HIV all the time and I’ve had several others over the past 10 years just to be safe.

I discovered the "Too Much Information Tuesday" site via Gomourto’s blog and it sounded like fun, so I’m going to start participating every week.  Here are this week’s answers:

1. When you are out in public, do you often get hard/get wet?

I do more frequently now that I’m a denied stroke slut for Mistress Trecia. A couple of weeks ago, I got so aroused at work thinking about her that I leaked pre-cum through my boxers and khakis.

2. When you masturbate, how long, typically, is your session and what do you think about (other than having an orgasm)?

Back in the day, I used to masturbate three to four times a week for about 30 - 60 minutes per session thinking about whatever porn I happened to be surfing. (I also like erotic literature.) Currently, my masturbation sessions are completely at the mercy of Mistress Trecia’s whim and I tend to focus on her when I’m allowed to stroke.

3. What is your most pleasurable intercourse position?

Standing with my partner on the bed (or desk or kitchen counter). That position gives me more control and allows me to last longer and take my time. It also allows easy access so I can maniuplate my partner’s clit with my thumb helping her orgasm at least one or two times during intercourse.

4. How often do you use the word "fuck" (or its derivatives) in casual conversation - frequently, occasionally, rarely, never.

I was in the Navy, so I used to use the word "fuck" as often as I used the word "the". I discovered after I rejoined the civilian world that powerful words lose their power if you overuse them and I radically cleaned up my daily language. When I use the word "fuck" now, people realize I’m serious and pay attention to what I’m saying.

5. Have you ever had a spontaneous orgasm? How when why where?

Since I’m heavily into a tease and denial relationship with Mistress Trecia, I fight hard to stop any  orgasm.

Bonus (as in optional): Post a link to a picture you consider a strong sexual turn-on.

My current super-sexy daydream is Mistress Trecia. You can see my favorite pictures of her by going to her blog and watching the slideshow in the upper left-hand side of her page.

For a single "sexy picture", I chose Sara Rue from the cover of the Gypsy 83 DVD. I think she is a really beautiful woman and this movie was before she lost the weight (I love the big girls) and has her all gothed up as an added bonus. The movie is actually really moving, especially if you have ever felt like a clique outcast, and Sara shows off her serious acting and singing chops. I’m a sucker for beautiful, talented, and smart women.